Love in the moment

    Every little girl is taught that true love is out there. They will meet their own prince charming, and be whisked away from their horrid life to find something better. He will be hansom, and rich, and do what ever you want him to do. Then the little girl grows up. She wonders, "Where is my prince charming?" Many find a guy and think, "Well he is okay I will stay with him until something better comes along." Then some realize the worst. There is no prince out there, and love at first sight is a dream. Some people even start to doubt there is such a thing as love, becoming bitter, and hateful.

    Love is real but it is not tangible. You can not hold it, and you can not keep it, you can only give it. Love is fleeting, love is not lasting and it does not form a permanent bond. Love is in a moment. In a single moment you can love something so deeply that it is truly your whole world. Then the next morning when you wake, it is no longer there. Most people will try to continue to fake the love, because they do not want to hurt the other person. They do care for the person, just not in love anymore. So they go on, sometimes for years saying the three words until they lose all meaning and the moments are gone. Yet they keep going through the motions. Then they start to hate the person for killing that in them. This is the real end of most people's marriages.

    I try to say, "In this moment, I love you." They do not get that once the moment is over, the feeling has passed.  In that single moment though, I do love them. I love them with all that I am, and I do not care if they return that or not.

    Love can be a touch, a kiss, and embrace. It could be sex; it could be just a single moment of perfection. Any yes, love at first sight can be real when sharing a real human connection. Love was never meant to be forever. There is nothing that is forever. All things are easily taken away, or even thrown away.

     When choosing a mate, look for kindness, gentleness, a real connection, and the ability to share real human moments. Never chose only for love. In the end if there is only love, then there is nothing. All someone can ask is for a little kindness because there is so little of that in this world. 

    Love is a four letter word. This is all, nothing more. A true moment of love, there is no word for, it just is. In that moment love is like wind, flowing, moving, and unobtainable. It can be soothing on a hot day, than it can become a storm, or a whirlwind. It can tear you down, and it can build you up. It can never, ever be lasting. It is gone as fast as it can come. The beautiful thing about love is that once it is gone, it can always come back. It never leaves us forever. You will lead a happier and richer life once you realize love is in the moment, and it is just a four letter word.